#FOMOF

It's ' Fear of Missing Out Friends '

I have that fear. But there's nothing to be sad right? Let them jump on the avocados on some mountain cliffs. You remain happy with your Saturday by doing little amazing things. Reach out to your bae and just chill. You just have to click on the right option at the right time, that's it. And after hitting that option, don't dare be sad coz you only choose that.

Now that's called a good beginning to take the lead on. 

FRIENDS 

A VERY IMPORTANT THING IN OUR LIVES

THAT MATTERS WHEN LOST

I have a great fear of losing my close friends because I want them throughout my life. They act as my booster. We all should have a secret place in our hearts for our friends. Some of us may think that this  friend of mine is not at all in touch with me these days, he/she is ignoring me. No, they aren't, they are just letting you taste your life by yourselves and not by anyone's help. And when you call out for them, they just come at once. You might have heard the saying from the Kota factory series, Last episode of season 1," Dosti koi revision thori hai, jo karnie hai !? " So yes, they might be on a vacation sometimes, let them be. But the most dangerous is when a friendship is broken, Have you ever tasted it?    

I did once and I must say it was really bad. Just small distress leads to a big breakup. Egos are very bad. They take you just into a mirror maze and shut the way out. Whole life you will be there in that mirror cage, until one day when that friend comes to open the cage and take you out. Till then you will reach a bad state, you will cry, you will try to forget your mistakes and then again think that it was his/her mistake and then again changing your topic to get past him/her. It's even worse. Like whenever you see him/her or his/her parents in public, you try to run out of that scene, fearing to be caught by them. Competition starts between the two best friends and that too for something that is not even descriptive.

[While writing this, everything between us just came in front of my eyes, I am still trying to get past this. Does anyone has any permanent solutions? Write to me please] 

Everything is fine until you get a new bunch of  friends in your higher secondary. And then your life becomes amazing. Your body gets a different aura. Like a boy studying 10 years in an all-boys school and then suddenly he gets into a coed school for higher studies😁 . And on his first step in his new class, his mind tells him, " Ab maza hai zindagi mein !" You try to get to new friends, in fact make new friends. You all get to a specific corner of a classroom, then mark the boundaries as ours. Then you do everything except studies, you play mature games, crack silly jokes in which every gang member laughs. You are on the arrow point of the teacher. But that's real fun right? Instead of sitting with some high-level serious and studies guy, it's much better to have some right moments with that 'Ours Gang'. Some parents might say that you should always sit with some serious guys, then you would only excel in your studies. But even those gang members passed the class with even good marks. It's such that they have made their studies more interesting and it's not important how many hours you study, it's about how much knowledge you have gained at the end of the day. That's what matters.

Yes, at every point of your life you would find friends. Friends come and go, as everyone has their priorities. It's definitely on us how we maintain that bond. If there's a slight leakage, fix it ya! who are you waiting for. 

Let me now tell you a story of my that friend. I won't disclose any name and everything in that story would be frictional, but the storyline would be real. Everyone has that one amazing friend from which you expect everything. I also have that, but that won't be my story. I am gonna talk about that friend from whom I don't expect anything and even 'Ganga' didn't. (I will call that friend Ganga)Just a no way a funny friend of mine.

I put forward my hand out first for a handshake. Ganga fiercely said, " I have someone, so please ." I said that I knew, I just wanted to talk. After a couple of seconds, we became ghosts. But she remembered me, but I didn't. I had more important work other than remembering a banana peel. 3 years passed. Nothing. Then one such day, I found her flowing by an event in which I was a keen performer. She looked at me very closely, but I didn't. We even danced in the same round group. We were just figuring out each other, thinking how to talk again. It didn't work. The event got over, everybody went back home. That night I got an anonymous message: 'Merry Christmas'   

That's when the uproarious story started. We only met over telegram and talked wholeheartedly. I childishly insult her and she too did the same. We sometimes talk about our doubtful destination weddings and then defaming our fiancée's. In between, we find new funny words and then repeating it again and again. It was fun. Sometimes she waited for me to come over and sometimes me. We give our back to one another. And I must say that it's still on till now but at a slow pace. I don't know why as she doesn't disclose it to me. Maybe she getting married🤣.

Ya, you also want one like this right? You have one, just find it out bro.

At last, I'm gonna say that friendship is like a Lock and key system. Both have to have the key to each other's lock. If one loses it then the other should always lend him theirs. Coz mistakes are a human thing and I bet on it.

So ya that's it. Sorry for releasing my blog late this time. My Apologies. 

Do Like, Share and Subscribe 😜(YouTube thing right? Please bear Friends). By the way, I am not doing well these days. It is majorly due to overweight, laziness, stress, specks, phone, my character, my alarm clock, and you all.🤞 

Bye, see you on my next blog.