FAMILY: A Harmony


I was a bit funny these days despite some bad moods. It's just that I'm only blushing by these days and nothing else. I just don't know what to do next after my studying schedule is over. I have so many friends who can hold my back but I even don't have the power to approach them. And then at last out of frustration, I try to make in with my family. And suddenly, my stress and anxiety are gone. Wow!

A FAMILY

Let us start with a beautiful quote by George Bernard Shaw,

" A HAPPY FAMILY IS BUT AN EARLIER HEAVEN "    

According to Lord Google, a Family is a group of one or more parents and their children living together as a UNIT. It simply means that a family is a bunch of human beings who live together, share everything as a whole, and love each other very much. That's why they live together right. If someone hates a person, then why would he like to live with that guy. In a family that would never happen, as its aura forces everyone to live together. There might be some distress in between, but the family only as a whole solves it. The distress might remain for some days but that's fine. This only makes a family strong.

Small and cute family fights are too often in my family. Like that's the point when all the family members get together. I just love it. Someday it might be the sugar or salt or it might be the wrongly pressed shirt or the towel and what else. When the two of our parents argue over something, we try to stop them right. But at last, we are only blamed for taking sides🤷‍♀️. It's Injustice, blaming the cute little kids na. I have also seen days when my two parents taunt each other's family members. Those days are my best, we go down to laughing listening to them. But that's real love. Looking at them, I also ponder, "Will this be my married life too! …Wow." 

Sometimes we try to give expert advice to parents. But it seems that they didn't take the advice. They might be thinking," This Eighteen-year-old kid is giving ME advice, I'm his father ya." They then try to find our faults and point out our mistakes. But that's their way to grow us up. At every point and every step, our parents teach us the right way. They sometimes mock us, but it's for our good only. The opposite isn't good. After some years we have to push ourselves to the outside world and it will be only us alone. We have to take the step and no one, even our parents won't help us that day in taking the step. Their work was to teach us and train us, not more than this. Yes, that's the truth.

When we grow up, a point comes where we find ourselves a bit cut-off from our family. We don't like to talk much with them or enjoy gossiping with them. We get busy with our things, laughing at our jokes, dashing around group chats(well I don't have any), and mainly doing our own business. We seem happy and fine. But something inside us still says," Something is wrong". At last, we somehow try to get back. All the good memories with them just flash back. The family tours, picnics, occasions, the photography sessions, and of course. the result days. We laugh out. I think this is the strongest pulling force ever. Nature and Life are merely incomplete without them. 

Our soul is made up of our parents' souls. Losing any one of them is like cutting 33.3333% of our soul. I can't even think of that.

"WHY DOESN'T THEY GIVE ME PRIVACY! I have just started to make decisions on my own and they have just banned me, my every activity." 

But in your bad times, they are our only supporters. And I have felt that.


Today was Father's day and we had a great party. He laughed seeing the cake. I too smiled. Mom too laughed. But my sister took all the credit for the cake. I just let her win this time.

This is it. The lockdown vibes made me write on my family this time and I liked it. And I have decided to publish at least three blogs every month. Lots of love and Bye-Bye.



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